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Preschooler (3–4 years): development and preschool

Stage: 3–4 years

Illustration: growing sprout

Sleep

10–13 hoursper 24 hours
6+ hours, sometimes the whole dayawake between naps
1–1.5 hours if still nappingper nap

the nap becomes optional for many children

Feeding

Fully shares the family diet, with attention to enough vegetables and fruit and limited sweets and snacks. Involve your child in setting the table and simple cooking jobs — it makes trying new foods more likely.

Dairy: About 2 cups of milk a day.

Diaper size

Usually dry in the daytime; some children still wear training pants at night (size 5–6).

Development at this stage

Play & do together

Care & things to watch

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